Queen Confidence & Boundaries Coach
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Stop Overgiving.
Start Living From Calm Power.
A nervous-system-led framework for high-achieving women who are done proving, fixing, and carrying everything — and ready to be chosen without force.
Built from lived experience — not theory.
Not sure yet? → Take the Overgiver Quiz
Trusted by women who lead, create, nurture, and carry a lot — quietly.
You’re Highly Capable — But Quietly Depleted
You’re trusted, relied on, often the backbone in work, relationships, and family.
You give. You lead. You care deeply.
And yet:
Your energy feels
drained
Rest brings guilt instead of relief
Your needs feel
invisible
You keep giving… and feel less chosen
This isn’t because you’re weak.
It’s because you’ve been over-functioning for too long.
What Happens When
You Keep Doing It Alone
Constantly Saying Yes
Leaving Yourself Depleted
Feeling Invisible
Your Effort is Unnoticed
Guilt Around Rest
Pausing Feels Selfish
Pulling Yourself Back From Success
Old Patterns Sabotage Progress
Attracting the Wrong Energy
You Draw In Takers Instead of Supporters
Discover your overgiving pattern in 1:30 minutes
The Gentle Reset™ Method
A simple, repeatable framework to move from depletion → grounded self-trust.
The Gentle Reset™ teaches you to:
REGULATE
Safety before strategy
Calm your nervous system so decisions stop coming from survival.
Outcome: You stop reacting from exhaustion.
IDENTIFY
Name the overgiving pattern
Understand where your energy leaks actually are.
Outcome: Clarity replaces self-blame.
RECLAIM
Needs, boundaries, self-trust
Learn to say no without spiraling or guilt.
Outcome: You stop abandoning yourself.
INTEGRATE
Live it, don’t perform it
Build sustainable routines that support you long-term.
Outcome: Sustainability becomes your baseline.
Inside The Gentle Reset™ Academy
This is not motivation.
This is regulation, integration, and calm authority.
You’ll receive:
No hustle.
No harsh boundaries.
No becoming someone you’re not.
Which Overgiver Are You?
6 Overgiver Types
1. The Responsible One 🗂️
You take charge automatically.
You handle the logistics, the planning, the emotional labor — because if you don’t, it won’t get done.
On the outside: capable, reliable, impressive.
On the inside: tired, resentful, unseen.
2. The Peacemaker 🕊️
You sense tension before anyone else does.
You smooth things over, adjust your needs, and keep the peace — even when it costs you.
You’re praised for being “easy” and “understanding.”
But your own feelings stay unspoken.
3. The Prover 🎯
You give more to earn safety.
More effort. More support. More patience.
You believe love, respect, or commitment comes after you’ve shown your value — not before.
4. The Emotional Container 🫙
People lean on you.
They vent, process, and unload — and you hold it all.
You’re strong for everyone else…
but rarely held yourself.
5. The Successful Overgiver 💼
You’re high-achieving, disciplined, and capable.
You’ve tasted success — yet old patterns keep showing up in love, friendships, or work.
You know how to push forward.
What you don’t know yet… is how to receive without guilt.
6. The Romantic Overgiver 🌹
(One of the hardest ones)
You give deeply — love, patience, understanding.
You stay longer and try harder, hoping effort will turn into devotion.
Instead, you end up carrying the emotional weight of the relationship —
wanting to be chosen without having to earn it.
If this sounds familiar, the quiz is for you.
I’ve Been Where You Are…
I said yes when I had nothing left. Over-apologized, over-explained, and put everyone else first. My body remembered it all — I was drained despite success.
The Gentle Reset™ gave me:
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Calm confidence
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Boundaries that stick without force
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Energy to achieve without burning out
Trusted by Women Who Lead, Create, and Care
Women just like you who are done overgiving and ready
to reclaim their energy, boundaries, and confidence.
You Don’t Need to Push Anymore
You need a place to land.
Start gently. Move at your pace. Return anytime.
Not sure yet? → Take the Overgiver Quiz
Clarity first. No pressure.
